Special Tips
"Be Innovators not Followers"
We are all bound to follow that already exists and this natural. But what we have hardly realized, is that we have always felt far more happy and proud when we have tried something new or out of the box and created unique methodologies to perform a general task.
When a child is born he/she is new to this world and completely unaware of even the smallest of things. Slowly the baby learns how to crawl, walk, talk, eat, etc. As a child we feel extremely excited about everything that we learn. But as we grow up, we start following the footsteps of others. We look upon people who made "Success" their nick-name. This is absolutely good, and we should learn from these people. But instead of learning things from them, we start doing things their way. We forget the basic fact....."The word follows the Trend-Setters". We should learn from these great people, but remember that these people are successful because they have either given the world something new, or tried a general thing in a different and innovative way.
Lets take an example. Entering a new class or college, is a new and exciting experience for us. When we are new to the situation, we look for people we are familiar with. Even when we enter a new work environment, we hesitate to talk to the already existing staff. Once we learn the art to overpower this hesitation, we feel confident about ourself and grow as our confidence grows.
Each time we try something new, we get to explore a whole new avenue of opportunities and experiences that the world has in store for us. Not to wonder, as what is always said, "A leader always walks with the crowd but ahead of them". These are the people, who guild the world to a new beginning and are responsible for the birth of a new era.
Once we acknowledge this fact and make it a part of our lives, we would find the meaning of true happiness and belief in ourself.
"Increase Your Self Confidence"
Have you ever noticed your friends at school, college, or in other parts of your life, who are far more confident, and successful than you are. Everything seems to go in their favor. These are the people who are far more calm, easy going and collected in whatever they do.
What is it that is behind the attitude and success of these people. Is it that they are smarter? Or is it that you consider them more lucky than you are? Well the secret lies in their Self Confidence because these people believe in themselves and rely on their abilities.
This is a fact that once you attain success your confidence in yourself increases. But another fact is that to attain that very success, you need to believe in yourself and feel confident about your decision. Your self-confidence creates opportunities for success, and with every success another self confidence building block is put into place. Every success works as a firm binding force reinforcing the building blocks of self confidence with each new achievement.
Another important aspect of boosting your self-confidence and achieving success, is your perception about whatever you are set to do. Sounds impossible, but yes, perception does create reality. You can change the world, what more you can write your own destiny and become the person you wish to be. It is a common saying that, "You can achieve what you believe in".
Always remember what you are best at, the compliments you received and feel proud of yourself. Work around the areas that you are good at, so as to make it even better and increase your chances of attaining success, nevertheless ignoring your weaker side. Encourage yourself in every possible manner that you can. Never look down upon and pity yourself for whatever you haven't achieved and remember that failures are a part of life. They don't fail you but instead teach you where you lack upon, giving you an opportunity to grow and become a better individual.
"Don't be Selfish but Pray for Others"
Prayers are sort of meditation where we come in direct contact with GOD. We pray for ourselves, our family and friends. We ask for all our happiness and what ever we need and desire for. We remember GOD each time we are in trouble or in a dire need of something. Hardly do we have the time to thank GOD for whatever he has given us and done for us. Even if we thank him, we do it like a favor being made and not with the same passion as we did when asked to grant our needs.
The best part in a person's look is his/her SMILE. Above anything else, a smile is the best thing that adds to your face value and in turn to your personality as well. It is an expression of happiness, excitement or just another way to say that you are contended. Each time you smile you send a message to others that you are happy. When we know that everything is moving smoothly in our lives and that everything is fine, we feel happy about it. Whatever be our feeling, happiness or sadness, we express it by a mere gesture or an expression. However we feel or react, our body and senses respond accordingly.
A smile can work wonders for you, from the way the world sees you to the way your perception changes about the world. When you start your day with a smile, you feel far more confident about yourself, increasing the positive attitude within you. Apart from this your smile plays an important role in the way the world looks up to you and reacts with you...........and that is what plays like a magical spell in your personality!!
Turning that unpleasant frown upside down and smiling improves your mood and will allow you to become more open with your feelings as well. This creates a drastic change in the kind of person that you are. It transforms you from an introvert to a completely new, friendly, open and an extrovert person, one who enjoys the company of other people.
When ever you feel low, disappointed, depressed, lonely or feel like a victim of outbursts like anger, anxiety, etc, "Just Smile" and talk to someone you enjoy the company of, or enjoy your favorite pastime, and you will notice how this works like a miracle for you. However you may feel, it reflects on your face, health, reaction towards other people and as a whole on your complete personality.
Have you ever heard of a famous saying, "SMILE - Because your Smile makes others to Smile as well !!"? Yes, this is absolutely true. The way you see the world, the world sees you. If you brood over something, the world around seems boring and depressing. People want to see you smile. When you are happy, the world looks colorful. So, enjoy your life to the fullest, smile and make others smile, and watch how your surrounding transforms into a more lively and a better place to live in!!
Do you remember when you prayed last for somebody else? Have you ever felt a difference when your prayer for others was granted than one for your own self? Yes there is a bigger happiness and satisfaction when you pray for someone who is in an urgent need of help.
Even if there is no one you know who needs your prayer, there are hundreds of others who are in a desperate need of love, acceptance and your prayers. Look around beyond your life of comfort and you will find thousands of people who have no shelter to save them from the harsh weather conditions, no food to relieve them of their hunger, no proper water to quench their thirst. There are hundreds of children who have no one to take care of them when they need it the most. We feel bad and depressed when we are not in a condition to purchase one of our dresses that we fell in love with at a mall. But have you seen people who do not have a cloth to cover their body and save them of freezing chillness in dead winters. These are the people who really need us, need our love and prayer.
There is no harm in asking GOD for anything. But when we pray for someone else, we sense an eternal satisfaction and happiness for being another person's medium of prayer....and anyways, you never know when your prayer would work as a miracle for someone!!
Brighten up The World with Your SMILE
A smile can work wonders for you, from the way the world sees you to the way your perception changes about the world. When you start your day with a smile, you feel far more confident about yourself, increasing the positive attitude within you. Apart from this your smile plays an important role in the way the world looks up to you and reacts with you...........and that is what plays like a magical spell in your personality!!
Turning that unpleasant frown upside down and smiling improves your mood and will allow you to become more open with your feelings as well. This creates a drastic change in the kind of person that you are. It transforms you from an introvert to a completely new, friendly, open and an extrovert person, one who enjoys the company of other people.
When ever you feel low, disappointed, depressed, lonely or feel like a victim of outbursts like anger, anxiety, etc, "Just Smile" and talk to someone you enjoy the company of, or enjoy your favorite pastime, and you will notice how this works like a miracle for you. However you may feel, it reflects on your face, health, reaction towards other people and as a whole on your complete personality.
Have you ever heard of a famous saying, "SMILE - Because your Smile makes others to Smile as well !!"? Yes, this is absolutely true. The way you see the world, the world sees you. If you brood over something, the world around seems boring and depressing. People want to see you smile. When you are happy, the world looks colorful. So, enjoy your life to the fullest, smile and make others smile, and watch how your surrounding transforms into a more lively and a better place to live in!!
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